February 12, 2025
Patient Gratitude
Dear Dr. Lawrence and the Incredible Staff at Memorial Hospital,
Six months ago, I was rushed to your emergency department with what would later be diagnosed as a massive pulmonary embolism. As I finally return to full health, I wanted to express my profound gratitude to the remarkable team whose expertise, compassion, and dedication not only saved my life but transformed a terrifying experience into one where I felt cared for as a whole person.
Dr. Lawrence, your calm decisiveness in those critical first hours remains vivid in my memory. While I was struggling to breathe and overwhelmed with fear, you explained what was happening and what needed to be done with remarkable clarity and reassurance. The way you balanced technical precision with genuine human warmth made an impossible situation manageable. I later learned that you had already completed a 12-hour shift when my case arrived, yet you showed no signs of fatigue or impatience as you coordinated my care and personally followed up after the initial crisis had passed.
To the emergency department nurses—especially Nurse Chen and Nurse Okafor—your vigilant monitoring and swift responses to changes in my condition were lifesaving. I remember Nurse Chen holding my hand while explaining each medication being administered, and Nurse Okafor's gentle humor that somehow made even the placement of a central line less frightening. Your clinical expertise was matched only by your compassion.
The pulmonary team who managed my case after stabilization deserves special recognition. Dr. Martinez, your thorough explanations of my condition, the treatment plan, and what I could expect during recovery empowered me during a time when I felt utterly vulnerable. You never rushed our conversations, addressed all my questions (even the ones I asked repeatedly due to medication fog), and made complex medical information accessible without condescension.
To the ICU staff who cared for me during those first critical days: your technical skill was matched by extraordinary humanity. You maintained my dignity during procedures that were necessarily invasive. You explained each alarm, each medication, each change in treatment. You coordinated to ensure I could get fragments of rest despite the constant monitoring. And perhaps most meaningfully, you created space for my family's presence and questions during an overwhelmingly stressful time.
The respiratory therapists—particularly Sam and Latisha—who worked with me during early recovery showed remarkable patience as I struggled through breathing exercises and gradually rebuilt my lung capacity. Your encouragement when progress seemed infinitesimally slow made all the difference in maintaining my motivation during a physically and emotionally exhausting process.
I must also acknowledge the often-unsung heroes who contributed to my care: the phlebotomists who somehow found my difficult veins with minimal discomfort; the imaging technicians who made claustrophobic scans bearable with gentle guidance; the food service staff who remembered my preferences and dietary restrictions; the environmental services workers who maintained an impeccably clean environment while always offering a kind word. Each of you contributed to an atmosphere of comprehensive care that addressed not just my medical needs but my human ones.
To the case management team who coordinated my transition home and follow-up care: your attention to detail ensured that I had the resources, equipment, and support needed for recovery. The seamless handoff to home health services and outpatient rehabilitation prevented the gaps in care that so often complicate recovery from serious illness.
Healthcare professionals often see patients at their most vulnerable—frightened, in pain, facing mortality in ways they've perhaps never done before. What distinguished my experience at Memorial Hospital was how you all managed to preserve my personhood within the necessary medical interventions. You remembered that the body in the hospital bed was attached to a person with fears, questions, a family, a life outside the hospital walls, and a future beyond the immediate crisis.
Six months later, I've returned to work, resumed my regular activities, and celebrated another birthday I might not have seen. Every day I spend with my family, every ordinary moment that previously I might have taken for granted, now carries the weight of your collective gift to me: more time, more life, more possibilities.
I know that healthcare workers are facing unprecedented challenges—systemic pressures, staffing shortages, emotional fatigue, and the lingering effects of the pandemic. Against this backdrop, the exceptional care you provided becomes even more remarkable. Please know that your work matters profoundly, that the compassion you show alongside your clinical expertise creates ripples that extend far beyond the hospital walls.
With immeasurable gratitude,
Michael Ramirez
Hospital Staff Note: Mr. Ramirez's letter was shared (with permission) at our monthly staff meeting and has been added to our "Why We Do This Work" bulletin board. Thank you, Michael, for taking the time to share your experience. Letters like yours remind us of the profound impact our work can have.